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Kamahlpitfiter
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Post subject: Help! I'm desperate. Advice please.
 Posted: Dec 17, 2009 - 08:02 AM
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| There is this girl that I like, we have not seen each other for about 2 years and we have just met each other at a common friend's birthday party. I did not have the courage to talk to her except saying Hello. She has recently texted me to the birthday, I want to do something for her eventhough I could not make it to her party. I also have the urge to flirt with her through text, but I do not know what to talk about. Please can anybody give me some advice? I have not had any girlfriend in the past therefore I do not have any experience in this sort of things. We are both 21 years old. |
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Janice
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Posted: Feb 03, 2010 - 09:31 PM
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Joined: Mar 19, 2004
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The real issue here, as you admit, is your lack of courage. It shouldn't be that difficult to respond to text messages -- all it takes is some basic communication skills.
I suggest you start by sharing what you're doing and asking what she is doing and is interested in. Doing this by text is a good start, as is email, but you will eventually have to graduate to the phone and then in-person. If this requires more "courage" than you think you have, then you may need to take a deeper look at what is preventing you from socializing with members of the opposite sex.
Give it a try and see how it goes. Don't be too harsh on yourself, and try to learn from your mistakes. I invite you to contact me for a complimentary telephone coaching session should you like to look into this more in depth. Good luck! |
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